Transgender Day of Remembrance, 2025
Every year on November 20th, communities around the world come together to observe Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), a day to honor the lives of transgender and gender-diverse people who have lost their lives to anti-transgender violence.
TDOR began in 1999, founded by activist Gwendolyn Ann Smith in memory of Rita Hester, a Black transgender woman whose murder in 1998 sparked grief and outrage. Since 1998, the day has now grown into a global moment of reflection, becoming a time not only to mourn but also to renew our collective commitment to creating a world where all transgender and gender-diverse people can live safely and with dignity.
Transgender Day of Remembrance is more than a list of names. It is a call to remember that behind every statistic lies a person, someone who has dreams and a community that loves them.
Rita Hester.Courtesy of John Freda
Ways to Observe
There is no single way to commemorate TDOR. Some communities hold vigils or read a list of names of those lost this year: others host art installations, healing circles, candlelight walks, or educational panel discussions. You could light a candle at home, repost resources via social media, and donate or support local trans-led, gender-diverse organizations. However you choose to honor the day, your presence and reflection matter.
Local Vigils and Gatherings
Below are opportunities to gather and stand in solidarity with your local trans community.
Interfaith Candlelight Vigil
November 20th | 7:00 p.m.
Unitarian Congregation in West Chester
Transgender Day of Remembrance Vigil
November 19th | 6:30 p.m.
Old Bucks County Courthouse
Transgender Day of Remembrance Flag Raising
November 20th | 3:00 p.m.
Community College of Philadelphia
Transgender Day of Remembrance Vigil
November 20th | 6:00 p.m.
Delaware County Courthouse
