Why We’re Out of Network, What It Costs, and How to Get Reimbursed

For many LGBTQ+, trans, and gender-expansive people, navigating healthcare has never been a neutral or simple experience. Insurance systems often require labels, diagnoses, and documentation that can feel exposing.

Not to mention, in the current political climate, many of our clients have legitimate concerns about who sees their information, how long it is stored, and how it might be used.

  • We hear you.

  • We have lived this too.

Choosing an out-of-network therapist gives you something many insurance-based clinics cannot offer.

Why Out-of-Network Care Can Be Safer For You

More privacy
Insurance companies usually require a mental health diagnosis for coverage. Out-of-network care allows us to support you without sending clinical information to third parties unless you choose to.
More autonomy
You choose your therapist rather than being limited by networks designed around cost efficiency instead of care quality.
More safety
Your sessions, identity exploration, and personal history stay between you and your therapist, not with insurers who may request treatment notes.
More specialised queer & trans-affirming care
We build therapy around your lived experience, not an insurance company’s requirements for “medical necessity.”
More control over your pace
Insurance can limit session frequency or end coverage abruptly. Out-of-network care lets us set a pace that meets your needs rather than a corporation’s budget.
Most clients with PPO plans receive partial reimbursement using a superbill. This means you get privacy and autonomy without losing access to financial support. We guide you through every step.

Why This Matters to Us as a Queer- and Trans-Led Team

Arrive was created by therapists who are LGBTQ+, gender-expansive, and deeply familiar with what it means to navigate systems that were not built with us in mind.

Many of us have personally experienced situations where:

  • our identities were pathologized

  • our information was scrutinised

  • our care was questioned or denied

  • our safety depended on how much we disclosed

Because of this, we are intentional about keeping your information as private as possible while still helping you receive reimbursement.

Using out-of-network reimbursement allows you to access care without letting insurance systems control your treatment or store sensitive identity information beyond what is absolutely required.

We want you to receive care without risking your privacy or autonomy.

Drag queen in a white dress holding a rainbow umbrella

A Simple, Safe Guide To Getting Reimbursed Through Your Insurance

Many insurance plans reimburse for out of network therapy, and most clients find the process simpler than they expect. Here is what it looks like in three clear steps.

1

We send you a superbill each month

After your sessions, we prepare a monthly superbill for you. It includes only the information insurers require:

  • Therapist name and credentials
  • Practice address
  • Tax ID number
  • Diagnosis code for reimbursement
  • Procedure code
  • Session dates and fees

We do not share session notes, personal identity information, or anything about what you discuss in therapy.

2

Log in to your insurance account

Sign in to your insurance member portal on the web or in their app.

  • Go to your insurance company website and sign in
  • Open the claims section
  • Look for “File a claim” or “Submit an out of network claim”
  • Select mental health or behavioral health if needed
3

Upload your superbill and submit

Once you are in the claims section, you can submit your superbill for reimbursement.

  • Choose the option to upload or attach a document
  • Select the superbill PDF we emailed to you
  • Confirm your information and submit the claim
  • Save or screenshot your confirmation

Most clients complete this process in under five minutes each month.

What Happens Next?

  • Most insurance companies review your claim within 2–4 weeks
  • They send reimbursement directly to your bank account or by check
  • You can track your claim status in your insurance member portal

Reimbursement comes to you, not to us. This means you stay in control of your information and your finances.

Insurance and Financial Frequently Asked Questions:

Book a free consult or your first appointment

We do a lot more than gender affirming care.

We are founded with the belief that all people deserve the freedom to express their gender how they choose. To that end, we provide a range of services to serve anyone of trans experience, and their friends, families and partners. You can find help for your gender questioning teen, or a community of people going through your same struggles in groups, you can tackle your questions around your sexuality, and you will always find every session grounded in a solid foundation of general mental health.