Sof C., MA (she/her)

Trauma-Informed Therapy for Identity Exploration and Healing in PA, NJ, DE, and NY


$65 - $85 / 50-min session

Accepting new clients

Virtual and In Person.

M.A., Community Trauma Counseling, Thomas Jefferson University

B.A., Psychology, Thomas Jefferson University

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About Me

I have a deep love for film that was sparked when I saw the movie Ladybird for the first time, and I try to fit in time to watch as many movies as I can between work and school. I love music; my top artists include Phoebe Bridgers and Djo. I try to live by embracing the unknown and understanding that everything is figureoutable. In my free time, I love going to concerts, playing guitar and aggressive inline skating at the skate park! 

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Specialties

Anxiety & depression

Gender Dysphoria & Gender Identity Exploration

Trauma-Informed Support

Relationship & Communication
Issues

Life Transitions
& Adjustment Challenges

Grief & Loss

Feminist & Social Justice-Oriented Therapy


LGBTQIA+
Affirming Support

Healing from Oppression & Systemic Harm

Attachment &
Emotional Regulation

Disclaimer: This list is not exhaustive, and therapists are always expanding their skill sets.

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Why I Became A Therapist

I became a therapist because I believe in the power of being truly seen and heard. Like many, I’ve moved through my own experiences with identity, anxiety, and trauma. I know how life-changing it can be to have a space where you don’t have to explain the basics of who you are. Therapy is both healing and radical. It should be a place where we can question the stories we've inherited and reconnect with our voice, while making space for empathy, truth, and growth. I’m here because I want to walk alongside people as they make meaning in their lives and begin to feel more like themselves again.

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Modalities (at a glance)

  • Centering the impact of systems and power dynamics through lived experience in the therapy space. Invites space for exploring how identity, oppression, and resistance shape emotional well-being and healing.

  • Safety and empowerment are foundational. Therapy work is done gently and intentionally, honoring each person’s pace and capacity as we navigate difficult or painful experiences together.


  • At the core of person-centered work is a belief in your inherent worth. Aim to build a nonjudgmental and authentic relationship where you feel seen, supported, and respected.


  • Together, explore the stories you’ve been told and those you tell about yourself, and begin to re-author them in ways that feel more true to your journey.


  • Support clients in understanding attachment patterns and creating more secure, connected experiences in the present.


  • Invite mindfulness and body awareness as tools for grounding and developing a more gentle relationship with thoughts and emotions.


  • Healing happens in connection. This approach emphasizes the importance of supportive relationships, including the one we build in therapy.


  • Work with you to recognize your resilience and what is already working, even in small ways.


  • Gently getting to know the different ā€œpartsā€ of ourselves that hold pain ,or protect us with compassion and curiosity.


  • While not formally trained in somatic modalities, I bring basic body awareness into sessions as an important piece of processing emotions and restoring safety in the nervous system.


  • Understanding the ā€œwhyā€ behind our experiences can be powerful. Offer tools and insights that support your growth both in and beyond therapy.

Who I Help

LGBTQ+ folx looking for gender-affirming, identity-celebrating care

People exploring gender identity, gender dysphoria, or transition-related questions

Young adults navigating coming out, chosen family, or cultural stigma

Individuals questioning their sexual orientation, labels, or sense of self

Clients unpacking childhood wounds, attachment patterns, or relational pain

Survivors of trauma looking for support that honors their pace and boundaries

College students and grad students facing burnout, self-doubt,
or identity shifts

Anyone seeking therapy that is compassionate, collaborative, and socially aware

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Lesbian couple laughing in therapy, paoli, PA

How I Work

What to Expect (first 1–2 sessions)

We’ll take time to understand your needs and goals at your own pace. It is important to begin building a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel seen and supported.

Our early sessions are about getting to know each other, exploring what brought you here, and creating a therapy experience that fits you. No pressure, just connection!

  • Where your insights and instincts are valued

  • There is a strong stress for validating your autonomy, and lived experiences through systems that may have been against you

  • It is important to have a willingness to explore whatever comes up, even the messy or uncertain parts

  • I draw from various modalities to meet you where you are

  • Including the occasional silly anecdote or joke, because healing doesn’t have to be rigid and clinical

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Sof’s Library

Sof’s Guide Picks

Resources I often share with clients.

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Understanding gender dysphoria and providing the right support can make a significant difference in the lives of those experiencing it. Gender dysphoria, characterized by a profound discomfort with one’s assigned gender at birth, requires compassionate and effective therapeutic approaches. This post explores Gender-Affirming Therapy in Paoli, PA, highlighting the best types of therapy for gender dysphoria, how to support someone going through it, and the stages of treatment involved.

LGBTQ-affirming therapy offers a safe, inclusive space for individuals to explore their identities, process emotional challenges, and build resilience. For gay men, therapy can be a transformative experience, addressing unique pressures such as navigating societal stigma, managing relationships, and coping with mental health challenges like depression.

Availability & Locations Served

Telehealth for clients in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Delaware, and New York (teens with guardian consent as required and adults).

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