Dax (he/him)
Credentials
$65 - $85 / 50-min session
Accepting new clients
Virtual and In Person.
About Me
Hi, Iām Alexander Stefanini (he/him). I am the owner of Arrive Therapy and identify as a trans man. I started Arrive Therapy with the goal of providing high quality counseling and mental health care uniquely tailored to transgender and gender diverse individuals. At Arrive, we honor the unique journey of each TGD individual when it comes to gender identity and sexuality ā no two journeys are the same.
Specialties
Family Therapy
Couples Therapy
Parents of Trans Kids
PTSD
Gender Dysphoria
Coparenting Therapy
ADHD Coaching
Anxiety
Gender Coaching
LGBTQ Affirming Therapy
Identity Exploration & Concerns
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Disclaimer: This list is not exhaustive, and therapists are always expanding their skill sets.
Why I Became A Therapist
I became a therapist because I deeply believe that every person ā especially children and teenagers ā deserves to have someone genuinely in their corner. Too many young people navigate their hardest moments without a trusted adult who truly sees them, listens without judgment, and helps them make sense of what they're feeling. My work is driven by a commitment to being that steady, compassionate presence for the kids and individuals who need it most.
Modalities (at a glance)
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A self-inquiry process developed by Byron Katie that helps individuals identify and question stressful thoughts. It involves four questions and a "turnaround" to examine whether a belief is true, how you react when you believe it, and who you'd be without it ā with the goal of releasing suffering caused by unexamined thinking.
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A structured, evidence-based therapy that explores the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Clients learn to identify distorted or unhelpful thinking patterns and replace them with more balanced, realistic ones, ultimately changing how they feel and act.
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A goal-oriented, future-focused approach that emphasizes building on a client's existing strengths and resources rather than exploring the root causes of problems. Sessions are typically brief, and the work centers on what's already working and what small steps can create meaningful change.
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A mindfulness-based behavioral therapy that encourages clients to accept difficult thoughts and feelings rather than fighting them, while committing to actions aligned with their core values. The goal is to increase psychological flexibility rather than eliminate discomfort.
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An approach that views individuals within the context of their family unit, understanding that each member's behavior influences and is influenced by the whole system. Therapists work to identify unhealthy relational patterns and restructure dynamics to promote healthier functioning for everyone involved.
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Developed by Carl Rogers, this humanistic approach holds that people have an innate capacity for growth and self-healing when provided a safe, nonjudgmental environment. The therapist offers unconditional positive regard, empathy, and authenticity to help clients reconnect with their own inner wisdom.
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A licensed clinical specialty that addresses emotional and relational issues within couples and family relationships. MFT practitioners are trained to treat a wide range of mental health and relational concerns through a systemic, relational lens rather than focusing solely on the individual.
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A therapeutic approach that explicitly validates and supports the identities, experiences, and relationships of LGBTQ+ individuals. Rather than being neutral or pathologizing, affirming therapists actively create a space that honors sexual orientation and gender identity as healthy parts of who a person is.
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A specialized form of affirming care focused specifically on transgender and nonbinary individuals, acknowledging and respecting a client's gender identity as valid from the outset. Therapists support clients through gender exploration, transition-related decisions, and navigating societal challenges without imposing any particular outcome.
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An overarching framework (rather than a single modality) that recognizes the widespread impact of trauma on mental, emotional, and physical health. Practitioners prioritize physical and emotional safety, trustworthiness, and client empowerment, avoiding approaches that could inadvertently retraumatize.
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A collaborative, client-centered counseling style designed to strengthen a person's own motivation and commitment to change. Therapists use reflective listening and open-ended questions to help clients explore ambivalence and discover their internal reasons for making positive life changes.
Who I Help
Parents of Trans Kids
Individuals with trauma
LGBTQ individuals exploring gender and sexuality
Couples in straight looking relationships
Couples with at least one trans partner & LGBTQ couples
Trans kids and adults
How I Work
I work in a straightforward manner.
I believe you should leave each therapy session with something tangible ā a new insight, a new skill ā because every session should move the needle toward your goals, the life you want to live, and the way you want to feel.
I will challenge you, nurture you, and offer meaningful insight along the way.
I will ask you the tough questions and encourage you to make concrete changes between sessions.
And I will be right there with you, sharing in both your joys and your sorrows.
What to Expect
(First 1ā2 sessions)
In our intake session, I will gather as much information about you as possible to paint a full picture of who you are, what you are struggling with, your background and upbringing, and what you hope to get out of therapy ā and much more.
In the sessions that follow, we will dive right in to working on your goals, exploring wherever you feel comfortable. As we build trust over time, we will be able to work more deeply and tackle topics that may have felt too difficult to address at the start.
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Alexanderās Book Recommendations
Ways to Express Gender Identity
The Gender Book: Girls, Boys, Non-Binary and Beyond, Cassandra Jules Corrigan
Gender is a Social Construct ā The Role of Chromosomes in Gender Assignment
Guiding Clients Through the Coming Out Process
Resources for Supporting Trans Kids and Parents of Trans Kids
Trans Kids and Teens: Pride, Joy, and Families in Transition, Elijah C. Nealy
The Rise of "They" Pronouns ā Shaping Language & Gender
Most Effective Gender-Affirming Therapy Techniques
What is LGBT Affirming Therapy?
Gay Affirmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician: The Essential Guide, Joe Kort
Availability & Locations Served
Telehealth for clients in Pennsylvania, New Jersey and New York (teens with guardian consent as required and adults).
Pennsylvania
New Jersey
New York
Alexanderās Blog Picks
Resources I often share with clients.
The use of singular "they/them" pronouns to refer to individuals who identify as non-binary or gender non-conforming is becoming increasingly common. A recent study examined how the adoption of these pronouns is impacting language and societal perceptions of gender.
Directed by Julie Cohen, "Every Body" examines the trauma that many intersex people experience, but ultimately provides a feel-good take on the community.
LGBTQ-affirming therapy offers a safe, inclusive space for individuals to explore their identities, process emotional challenges, and build resilience. For gay men, therapy can be a transformative experience, addressing unique pressures such as navigating societal stigma, managing relationships, and coping with mental health challenges like depression.
Understanding gender identity is a journey into a world full of rich and diverse experiences. At its heart, gender identity is about who you know yourself to be, beyond just the labels society might put on you. Itās a deeply personal part of who we are, and expressing it can be a powerful way to connect with yourself and the world around you.

