Auricular Acupuncture - What is it?
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Auricular Acupuncture - What is it?

Auricular acupuncture is acupuncture that is utilized on the ear. There are multiple maps that can be used, but the predominant map of points is based on the homunculus theory. The homunculus theory shows a map based off the neurological distribution in the body, and is displayed as an overlay of an upside “infant” with large hands, feet, and head.

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Massage as Healing: Touch, Trust, and Nervous System Care for Queer & Neurodivergent Folks
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Massage as Healing: Touch, Trust, and Nervous System Care for Queer & Neurodivergent Folks

For a lot of people I work with, touch is complicated. Maybe because of trauma, dysphoria, chronic pain conditions, or just feeling like their body has never been a safe or comfortable place. A lot of folks are used to dissociating, or shutting down sensations to get through the day.

Massage can offer a way to reconnect with your body in a safe, supportive environment. The pace is slow. There’s lots of communication. You’re always in control of what happens in the session, and nothing is assumed.

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How to Survive the Holidays (As a Queer Person)
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How to Survive the Holidays (As a Queer Person)

The holiday season can be a mixed bag for queer people. Between family gatherings, nostalgic traditions, and potential challenges in environments that may not fully embrace who you are, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.

Here’s your ultimate guide to navigating the holidays as a queer person, filled with practical tips to protect your peace and prioritize your well-being.

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How Trans Folks Can Prepare for the Trump Administration
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How Trans Folks Can Prepare for the Trump Administration

The Fight Isn’t Over: Preparing for What’s Ahead

With the recent election, many in the LGBTQ+ community—especially trans folks—are feeling terrified about what lies ahead. A new administration openly hostile to transgender rights is cause for concern, but there are steps you can take now to protect yourself and secure your future. This guide is here to provide actionable advice, legal resources, and reassurance as you navigate these uncertain times.

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LGBTQ+ Resilience Post-Election: Finding Rest, Recovery, and Community Support
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LGBTQ+ Resilience Post-Election: Finding Rest, Recovery, and Community Support

In a time filled with constant strategizing, community organizing, and simply getting by, finding space for rest and recovery as an LGBTQ+ person after the election can feel like a luxury. But rest is essential. Before you reach a point of complete exhaustion, give yourself permission to pause. This rest is a key part of LGBTQ+ resilience post-election—a moment to recharge so you can continue moving forward.

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What Does It Mean to Decolonize Your Gender?
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What Does It Mean to Decolonize Your Gender?

Decolonizing gender involves challenging and dismantling the dominant Western, colonial perspectives on gender that have been imposed on marginalized communities. It means rejecting the rigid binary view of gender as solely male or female, and embracing a more fluid and expansive understanding of gender identity and expression

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The Rise of "They" Pronouns
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The Rise of "They" Pronouns

The use of singular "they/them" pronouns to refer to individuals who identify as non-binary or gender non-conforming is becoming increasingly common. A recent study examined how the adoption of these pronouns is impacting language and societal perceptions of gender.

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LGBTQ+ Couples Face Heightened Climate Risks: A Call for Inclusive Action
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LGBTQ+ Couples Face Heightened Climate Risks: A Call for Inclusive Action

A groundbreaking study by the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law has revealed that LGBTQ+ couples face heightened risks from climate change-related threats compared to their heterosexual counterparts. By addressing the unique needs and vulnerabilities of LGBTQ+ populations in climate change policies and disaster preparedness plans, we can work towards a more equitable and resilient future for all communities.

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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 20: Forgive Yourself
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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 20: Forgive Yourself

Supporting a transgender child is a journey full of emotions, learning, and growth. As a parent, it's important to recognize that you won't always get everything right. It's easy to feel overwhelmed or worry that you've made mistakes along the way, but a critical part of this journey is learning to forgive yourself. Prioritizing mental health support for both you and your child is key in navigating this process, and seeking out trans-inclusive counseling can offer the professional guidance you both need.

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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 19: Ask Before Acting
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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 19: Ask Before Acting

As the family of a trans kid, one of the most important principles you can embrace is respect for your child’s autonomy. Transitioning, or exploring one’s gender identity, is deeply personal, and every step of the journey should center on your child’s comfort and choices. Parental support for trans kids is not just about offering love and encouragement, but also about recognizing and honoring their right to make decisions about their identity and how it is shared with others.

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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 18: Become an Ally
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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 18: Become an Ally

One of the most impactful ways to support your transgender child is to learn how to be an ally. As your child grows and faces challenges unique to the transgender community, your role as an advocate becomes even more important. Being an ally isn’t just about accepting your child’s identity—it’s about actively standing up for them and creating a world where they can thrive.

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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 17: Prioritize Mental Health (Yours and Theirs)
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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 17: Prioritize Mental Health (Yours and Theirs)

When supporting your transgender child, prioritizing LGBTQ+ mental health is essential for both your child’s well-being and your own. Mental health plays a critical role in navigating the challenges and emotions that come with their transition, and as a parent, you have the opportunity to foster a nurturing and supportive environment. This means focusing on not just your child’s mental health, but also your own, as you both face different, yet equally important, emotional journeys.

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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 16: Check In Regularly
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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 16: Check In Regularly

Parenting a transgender child comes with unique challenges and responsibilities. One of the most crucial aspects of how to parent a trans child is to maintain open, ongoing communication. Whether your child came out years ago or more recently, it’s important to check in regularly with them about their well-being, feelings, and evolving needs. These regular conversations not only show your love and support but also create a safe space where your child feels heard and valued.

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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 15: Let Go, Accept, Grieve
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How to Support Your Trans Child, Part 15: Let Go, Accept, Grieve

Raising a child is filled with dreams, expectations, and milestones. However, when your child comes out as transgender, those expectations may suddenly shift, and parents can experience a range of emotions that may feel overwhelming. In this crucial time, it is important to remember that your child’s journey is theirs, and one of the most significant ways to support them is by processing your own emotions and learning to let go of the future you envisioned for them. It’s natural to feel confused, afraid, or even grieve the loss of the identity you thought your child had.

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