How to “Ally” for the Holidays
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Creating Holiday Support for LGBTQ+ Loved Ones
The holiday season can be difficult for many LGBTQ+ individuals. Family gatherings may bring anxiety or emotional stress, and finding affirming support is essential. As allies, we can play a vital role in making this time of year more inclusive and supportive for our LGBTQ+ friends and family members.
PFLAG’s “How to ‘Ally’ for the Holidays” highlights practical steps you can take:
Ask open-ended questions about holiday plans, rather than assuming family connections.
Encourage staying present, not focused on painful past holidays.
Listen closely and validate any concerns or stress.
Extend invitations for gatherings, creating safe and affirming spaces.
Promote self-care, and check in on well-being.
Be available, let LGBTQ+ individuals know they can reach out for support.
Address harmful language or misinformation firmly but kindly.
Keep the focus on your loved ones’ needs, not your own.
To explore these tips in depth, visit the full article from PFLAG: How to “Ally” for the Holidays.
Simple acts of allyship can have a big impact. Let’s help make the holidays brighter and more inclusive for our whole community.
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